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	<title>Comments on: Reason For Not Eating Out #8: Hidden Potential</title>
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		<title>By: jcpenney coupon</title>
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		<dc:creator>jcpenney coupon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 May 2012 14:34:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;did or things that happened to them...&lt;/strong&gt;

that would make a great narrative paper. have them circle the one they prefer, remembering that suspense and difficulties of some sort (even humorous difficulties) make the best narrative.the narrative chosen should cover one event only. do not try to ...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>did or things that happened to them&#8230;</strong></p>
<p>that would make a great narrative paper. have them circle the one they prefer, remembering that suspense and difficulties of some sort (even humorous difficulties) make the best narrative.the narrative chosen should cover one event only. do not try to &#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Check this out!</title>
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		<dc:creator>Check this out!</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 May 2012 13:51:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;a good of which topics you should...&lt;/strong&gt;

be writing about. make sure that you do not copy people&#039;s content though. this will make you look bad, as well as get google to look down on your blog posts.blog post writing to increase website traffic will only work if...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>a good of which topics you should&#8230;</strong></p>
<p>be writing about. make sure that you do not copy people&#8217;s content though. this will make you look bad, as well as get google to look down on your blog posts.blog post writing to increase website traffic will only work if&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Not Eating Out in New York &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Reason for Not Eating Out #25: Creative Dating</title>
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		<dc:creator>Not Eating Out in New York &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Reason for Not Eating Out #25: Creative Dating</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Oct 2008 22:08:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] I got into a bit more here, cooking for someone can lead to wildly intimate stuff. But if you&#8217;re still in that [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] I got into a bit more here, cooking for someone can lead to wildly intimate stuff. But if you&#8217;re still in that [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Popcorn</title>
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		<dc:creator>Popcorn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Apr 2007 17:58:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ll never forget cooking for my husband right after we first met.  It was, erm, steamy :)  And he still asks me to make that dish every now and then.  He&#039;ll say, &quot;Cook that pasta thing you made when you cooked for me for the first time.&quot; Awwww, makes my heart melt, among other things.

Great site, by the way!  I just found it today!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ll never forget cooking for my husband right after we first met.  It was, erm, steamy <img src='http://noteatingoutinny.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   And he still asks me to make that dish every now and then.  He&#8217;ll say, &#8220;Cook that pasta thing you made when you cooked for me for the first time.&#8221; Awwww, makes my heart melt, among other things.</p>
<p>Great site, by the way!  I just found it today!</p>
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		<title>By: Joanne</title>
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		<dc:creator>Joanne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Apr 2007 18:27:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am the main chef in my home.  I want my dishes in a certain spot.  I want to be in control.  While the SO does do his share in the kitchen, I tend to want to put him in a more submissive role (doing dishes) I am alpha when it comes to what is ingested, but outside of the kitchen, it&#039;s more equal.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am the main chef in my home.  I want my dishes in a certain spot.  I want to be in control.  While the SO does do his share in the kitchen, I tend to want to put him in a more submissive role (doing dishes) I am alpha when it comes to what is ingested, but outside of the kitchen, it&#8217;s more equal.</p>
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		<title>By: mark</title>
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		<dc:creator>mark</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Mar 2007 21:07:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Cathy,
You edging for your own Food TV show -- Sexy Kitchen/Sexy Chicken?  Could be a real winner.  You know what I told you about Food TV...you have to watch, it can breed some &#039;crazy&#039; thoughts.  As they say, &quot;sex sells&quot;, but it certainly is more interesting from your food based angle!

Cheers...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Cathy,<br />
You edging for your own Food TV show &#8212; Sexy Kitchen/Sexy Chicken?  Could be a real winner.  You know what I told you about Food TV&#8230;you have to watch, it can breed some &#8216;crazy&#8217; thoughts.  As they say, &#8220;sex sells&#8221;, but it certainly is more interesting from your food based angle!</p>
<p>Cheers&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Yvo</title>
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		<dc:creator>Yvo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Mar 2007 15:29:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Heh, I thought it interesting that I interpreted your &quot;who is in control/who is in the kitchen more&quot; as the same thing.  As in, because I&#039;m in the kitchen more, I&#039;m the one in control (which happens to be the case).  As for other aspects, ;) I&#039;ll not discuss that on an open forum as such.  Hehehe.  Good post.  I missed out on the opportunity to &quot;cook for a third date&quot; though.  Ah well :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Heh, I thought it interesting that I interpreted your &#8220;who is in control/who is in the kitchen more&#8221; as the same thing.  As in, because I&#8217;m in the kitchen more, I&#8217;m the one in control (which happens to be the case).  As for other aspects, <img src='http://noteatingoutinny.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  I&#8217;ll not discuss that on an open forum as such.  Hehehe.  Good post.  I missed out on the opportunity to &#8220;cook for a third date&#8221; though.  Ah well <img src='http://noteatingoutinny.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Aoife</title>
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		<dc:creator>Aoife</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Mar 2007 05:11:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Either I&#039;m a complete domestic or this speaks to my need for control, but I much prefer to be the cook. I love cooking for people, but it makes me a little nervous to be cooked for. As for cooking together, it just doesn&#039;t happen. I find myself delegating smaller and smaller tasks until my partner&#039;s job becomes enjoying the fruits of my labor.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Either I&#8217;m a complete domestic or this speaks to my need for control, but I much prefer to be the cook. I love cooking for people, but it makes me a little nervous to be cooked for. As for cooking together, it just doesn&#8217;t happen. I find myself delegating smaller and smaller tasks until my partner&#8217;s job becomes enjoying the fruits of my labor.</p>
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		<title>By: Daisy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Daisy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Mar 2007 18:11:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Interesting post - I just read that scene in the Namesake on the train to work this morning.  I totally agree with the points you make.  To me, cooking for others (be they family members, friends or romantic interests) is another way to share a part of myself.  There&#039;s just something so relaxed about cooking for others in one&#039;s home that I enjoy.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Interesting post &#8211; I just read that scene in the Namesake on the train to work this morning.  I totally agree with the points you make.  To me, cooking for others (be they family members, friends or romantic interests) is another way to share a part of myself.  There&#8217;s just something so relaxed about cooking for others in one&#8217;s home that I enjoy.</p>
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		<title>By: The Cat Lady</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Cat Lady</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Mar 2007 14:28:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Being that I am the principal chef in my own tiny Fort Greene kitchen for my live-in boyfriend, I can attest to the truth of kitchen dynamics translating to other aspects of the relationship.

What&#039;s sexiest to me is that, after a year of cooking my SO nightly dinners - we rarely eat out for reasons not unlike your own - I can predict with flawless accuracy whether he&#039;ll like a new dish I&#039;m trying based on what I&#039;ve discovered about his palate.  We&#039;ve built a lot of trust and intimacy this way: through making a point of sitting down together and talking about, and eating, my food.

To boot, I&#039;m a vegetarian cooking for an omnivore, so the bar is high.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Being that I am the principal chef in my own tiny Fort Greene kitchen for my live-in boyfriend, I can attest to the truth of kitchen dynamics translating to other aspects of the relationship.</p>
<p>What&#8217;s sexiest to me is that, after a year of cooking my SO nightly dinners &#8211; we rarely eat out for reasons not unlike your own &#8211; I can predict with flawless accuracy whether he&#8217;ll like a new dish I&#8217;m trying based on what I&#8217;ve discovered about his palate.  We&#8217;ve built a lot of trust and intimacy this way: through making a point of sitting down together and talking about, and eating, my food.</p>
<p>To boot, I&#8217;m a vegetarian cooking for an omnivore, so the bar is high.</p>
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